How does one succeed in life?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

If there is an abandoned house with no owner, can I live in it?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

What disgusts you?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

I just cannot wake up early, even if I sleep on time. What should I do?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

What I need from you?

How did you cope when someone you love, dealing with hyper-independence and trauma, felt they needed space to heal alone? Were you able to support them without overstepping, and did you eventually reconnect? How did that journey unfold?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

What have you learned from your parents' mistakes?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Procrastinates a lot.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Isn't it great that we have an incoming president who is embracing ideas from the past like manifest destiny? Isn't it greater that Trump is willing to get us more territory and land?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

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Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

What do you think of a parent telling their adult child to “keep their personal life to themselves” in relation to talking to them? No reason they should say that it was mean what should I do?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Why do some people have loving parents and some do not?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Does not procrastinate.

Is it just me, or do we all hate Sasuke from Naruto?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Making more friends is a goal.

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That's it for today.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Hangs out with loser friends.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Ask yourself:

Saving $10,000 is a goal.